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Saturday, November 28, 2009

I HATE LOVE

Posted by Babyberbz at 12:12 AM 0 comments
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it?
It makes you so vulnerable.
It opens your chest and it opens up your heart
and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.
You build up all these defenses,
you build up a whole suit of armor,
so that nothing can hurt you,
then one stupid person,
no different from any other stupid person,
wanders into your stupid life...
You give them a piece of you. T
hey didn't ask for it.
They did something dumb one day,
like kiss you or smile at you,
and then your life isn't your own anymore.
Love takes hostages.
It gets inside you
It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness,
so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends'
turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart.
It hurts. Not just in the imagination.
Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt,
a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.
I hate love.



I AM ME

Posted by Babyberbz at 12:04 AM 0 comments
I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me.
Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine,
because I alone chose it --
I own everything about me:
my body, my feelings, my mouth,
my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself
own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears.
I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.
Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me.
By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts.
I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me,
and other aspects that I do not know --
but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself,
I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions
to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.
However I look and sound, whatever I say and do,
and whatever I think and feel at a
given moment in time is authentically me.
If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought,
and felt turn out to be unfitting,
I can discard that which is unfitting,
keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded.
I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do.
I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive,
and to make sense and order out of
the world of people and things outside of me.
I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me.
I am me, and I am Okay.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

To "LET GO"...

Posted by Babyberbz at 3:25 AM 0 comments
To “let go” means not to worry about the future, but look forward to what might happen.

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To “let go” is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.

To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.

To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.

To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To “let go” is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.

To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.

To “let go” it not to intrude, worry or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.

To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To “let go” is to fear less, and love more.

Falling In Love :)

Posted by Babyberbz at 3:13 AM 0 comments
True love can bear the longitude of waiting even it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart, it may not always be right, but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another, before you decide, you should think first whether you have a better head or a better heart. It’s okay to kiss a fool or let the fool kiss you but never let a kiss fool you. Don’t find love, let it find you, that’s why it is called “falling in love”, you don’t force yourself to fall, you just fall. Never be ashamed to show love when you feel it because what is the most painful is to love and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Love hurts more when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.


      Girls are like angels, they forget and forgive, while men are devils, they easily get and forget. To love someone is to have the courage to walk away and to let go the other one whom wishes to be free, no matter how it hurts. On the course of love, people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to let go when they realized that things are not meant to be after all. Never say “I Love You”, when you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they are not there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look into the eyes if you have to say a lie. And never say hello if you mean to say goodbye. For words and hearts should be handled with care, cause when words are spoken and hearts are broken is the hardest things to repair.


     The simplest pick-up line does not have so many words; all I need is “I “ for me to say, “LOVE” for me to share it and “YOU” for me to give it. Don’t share your tears to someone who hurt you. Don’t long for someone if they left. Don’t feel sorry if you fail when you try your best. Someone out here is more deserving for your time and love. True love is not when the heart beats faster or fastest, but when it beats no more and yet the loves the persons, then you are using your mind. But if you love with no reason, then you are using your heart.


   Now examine yourself do you love with no reason at all? I still think it doesn’t matter as long as you love nothing matters much more.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Unbelievable by Craig David

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Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Wilber Pan - Bu de Bu Ai

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Zhuan Shu Tian Shi (MY PERSONAL ANGEL) - TANK

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Thursday, November 12, 2009

BOWLING

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Shamrock - Haplos

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Spongecola - Pasubali

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Jolina Magdangal - Yapak

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Jolina Magdangal - Maybe It's You

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The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus Cat And Mouse

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Justin Bieber - One Time

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Secondhand Serenade - "Stranger"

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Fallin' - Janno Gibbs

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Hey Monday - Candles

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Hey Monday - How You Love Me Now

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Monday, November 9, 2009

TAGALOG KOWTS

Posted by Babyberbz at 1:40 AM 1 comments
Ang sakit maramdaman na kahit kailan, 
hindi mo ko matututunang mahalin… 
masakit isipin na umaasa ako sa wala… 
at alam mo ang pinakamasakit? 
ang makita kang masaya pag nandiyan siya…
 
sabi mo mahal mo ko, 
naniwala naman ako. 
sabi mo di mo ko iiwan 
ang sabi ko, “oo,aasahan ko yan ah!” 
pero bakit paglipas ng panahon, nakita kita at
narinig pa ang mga sinabi mo sa kin 
sinasabi mo rin sa iba!

Tumingin ako sa mga mata mo… 
at nakita ko ang mga luha habang iniiyak mo ang
sakit na nararamdaman mo. 
Nilapitan kita at sinabi, “tahan na…” 
at tinanong mo ko, “hindi ba puwedeng mahalin niya rin ako?” 
at sinabi ko lang, 
“yan nga rin dapat itatanong ko sayo, eh…”
 
mahirap kapag iniwan mo ang 
taong minahal mo ng totoo…
nung sinabi mo sa kanyang ayaw mo na, 
akala mo pipigilan ka nya pero nagkamali ka, 
niyakap ka lang nya at sinabing: 
yan din ang sasabihin ko, naunahan mo lang ako.
 
sana akin ka, para hindi ka na iiyak…
sana akin ka, para hindi ka na masasaktan…
sana akin ka, para hindi ka na aasa…
ngunit sana ako na lang siya…
na minahal mo ng sobra!!!
 
Pinilit kong maging sya, 
ginawa ko lahat sa’yo katulad ng ginawa niya, 
minahal kita higit pa sa naibigay nya,
tinanong kita kung KULANG PA BA? 
sinagot mo kong..”tama na,hindi ka naman siya..” =(

noon sabi mo, hindi kita iiwan.
Magkasama tayo kahit na anong laban…
ipagtatangol, proprotektahan… 
naniwala naman ako…nasiyahan… 
yun pala hindi na natin kailangan ng laban….
Dumating lang siya… 
alam ko na kung sinong talunan..
 
sabi nila masakit pag di ka nakikita ng mahal mo.. 
dahil may tinitignan pa siyang iba.. 
pero mas masakit pala, 
yung kahit wala na siyang tinitignang iba, 
di ka pa rin nya makita..

ang hirap sagutin ng tanong na ‘bakit’. 
ang hirap din tanggapin ang mga sagot ng ‘bakit’. 
ang hirap din maghanap ng lunas sa sakit na dulot ng ‘bakit’ 
pero ‘bakit’ ba ang hirap mong kausapin? 
sasagutin mo lang naman ang tanong ko… 
‘bakit’ siya ang mahal mo? at bakit hindi ako?
 
mahal mo siya kaya siya lang nakikita mo, 
di ko naman puwedeng pagpilitan sarili ko sayo 
dahil di mo na ko mahal di ba? 
pero bakit ganon kahit mukha na kong tanga 
habang minamahal mo sya, 
bakit ganon MAHAL PA RIN KITA?..



 

BOB ONG LINES

Posted by Babyberbz at 12:43 AM 0 comments
“Ang tenga kapag pinagdikit korteng puso…
Extension ng puso ang tenga,
kaya kapag marunog kang makinig,
marunong kang magmahal…”

Hindi lungkot o takot ang mahirap sa pag-iisa kundi 
ang pagtanggap na sa bilyon-bilyong tao sa mundo
wala man lang nakipaglaban upang makasama ka.”

”Nakabalik ako sa lugar, pero hindi ko naibalik ang panahon.”

”Huwag mong maliitin ang kakayahan mong tsumamba”

“Walang taong manhid. 
Hindi niya lang talaga maintindihan 
kung ano ang gusto mong iparating 
dahil ayaw mo siyang diretsuhin.” 

“Kapag pinag-aagawan ka 
malamang maganda o gwapo ka. 
Sumama ka sa mabuti, hindi sa mabait. 
Sa marunong hindi sa matalino. 
 Sa mahal ka, hindi sa gusto ka.” 

“Hindi naman lagi iiyak ang mundo para lang sa isang tao.”

Mahirap magpatupad ng batas, 
pero madali maghanap ng violations 
kapag oras na ng sisihan.”  

“Kung hindi mo alam kung sino ka, 
paano mo maipagmamalaki ang sarili mo?”

  “Nalaman kong maswerte ako 
dahil pinaglaro at pinag-aral ako 
ng mga magulang ko nung bata pa ako. 
Hindi pala lahat ng bata e 
dumadaan sa kamusmusan.”

 ”Kumain ka na ng siopao na may palamang pusa 
o maglakad sa bubog nang nakayapak, 
pero wag na wag kang susubok mag-drugs. 
Kung hindi mo kayang umiwas, 
humingi ka ng tulong sa mga magulang mo 
dahil alam nila kung saan ang mga murang supplier
at hindi ka nila iisahan.” 

“Minsan kailangan mong maging malakas, para amining mahina ka.” 

“Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao
wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..” 

“Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na 
hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.” 

“Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

“Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.”

“Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. 
Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, 
naunahan ka lang.”   

“Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo 
wag ka magreklamo. 
Kasi may mga tao rin na 
di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. 
Kaya quits lang.” 

“Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, 
kausap sa telepono, 
kasama sa mga lakad
o ka-text ng wantusawa 
eh may gusto sayo 
at magkakatuluyan kayo. 
Meron lang talagang mga taong 
sadyang friendly, 
sweet, flirt, malandi, 
pa-fall o paasa.” - 

“Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. 
Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, 
mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo 
at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang
pumili ng kapareha dahil lang 
maganda o nakakalibog ito. 
Totong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao 
higit sa anuman. 
Sa paglipas ng panahon, 
maging ang mga crush ng bayan
nagmumukha ding pandesal, 
maniwala ka.” 

“Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, 
kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, 
kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.” 

“Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao.
Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida 
sa script na pinili nya.” 

“Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo 
ang pagitan ng dalawang tao 
pag nagtalikuran na sila? 
Kailangan mong libutin 
ang buong mundo 
para lang makaharap ulit 
ang taong tinalikuran mo.”


“Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, 
at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan”

“Kung nagmahal ka ng taong 
di dapat at nasaktan ka, 
wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. 
Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply
ng dugo sa katawan mo. 
Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy 
at ang sisisihin mo naman 
ay ang hypothalamus mo 
na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, 
mali ka pa rin! Bakit? 
Utang na loob! 
Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo 
ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! 
 Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang
kung matututo kang tanggapin
na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo 
ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, 
kundi IKAW mismo!”


“Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…
nakakatakot mahulog…
at kapag nahulog ka, 
it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka..”
 

“Dalawang dekada ka lang mag-aaral. 
Kung di mo pagtitiyagaan, 
limang dekada ng kahirapan ang kapalit. 
Sobrang lugi. 
Kung alam lang yan ng mga kabataan
sa pananaw ko ay wala ng 
gugustuhing umiwas sa eskwela.”


“Nalaman kong hindi pala exam 
na may passing rate ang buhay. 
Hindi ito multiple choice
identification, true or false, enumeration, 
o fill-in-the-blanks na sinasagutan, 
kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. 
Huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama 
o mali ang sagot, 
kundi base sa kung may kabuluhan 
ang mga naisulat o wala. 
Allowed ang erasures.”

“Mangarap ka at abutin mo ito. 
wag mo sisihin ang sira mong pamilya, 
palpak mong syota, pilay mong tuta 
o mga lumilipad na ipis… 
kung may pagkukulang sayo ang magulang mo, 
pwede kang manisi at magrebelde, 
tumigil ka sa pag-aaral, mag drugs ka,
magpakulay ng buhok sa kili-kili… 
sa bandang huli, ikaw dinang biktima… 
rebeldeng walang napatunayan at bait sa sarili.” 


“Mag-aral maigi; 
kung titigil ka sa pag-aaral, 
manghihinayang ka sa pagtanda mo 
dahil hindi mo naranasan 
ang kakaibang ligayang dulot 
ng mga araw na walang pasok 
o suspendido ang klase o absent ang teacher.”

“Kung paniniwalaan namin kayo
na hindi naglaro ng tubig 
kahit na basa ang damit n’yo, 
kayo ang niloloko namin; 
hindi kayo ang nakapanloloko.”


“Hinahanap mo nga ba ako o ang kawalan ko?”

“Ayokong nasasanay sa mga bagay na pwede namang wala sa buhay ko “



 

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

VOICE ON THE RADIO by: MARIE DIGBY

Posted by Babyberbz at 3:41 AM 0 comments

Sunday, November 1, 2009

CRUSH :)

Posted by Babyberbz at 4:37 AM 1 comments

What Is a Crush and Why Do I Have One?


Just as our bodies grow as we get older, so do our feelings. They change and mature as we become preteens, teenagers, and adults. A crush is a word used to describe special feelings you have for another person, a classmate, or friend that you really like.

Noticing your first crush is an exciting time in life because you're beginning to understand how it feels to like another person — a lot!

Sometimes, feelings for a crush can be confusing because they're new to you and you aren't sure how to act. You could have mixed feelings. When you see your crush, a part of you might feel embarrassed and you might want to run away and hide. Another part of you might imagine your crush noticing you and sharing the same feelings.

Crushes are a little bit like the romantic love adults feel toward one another. And in a way, a crush can help us think about the kind of person that we want to love when we grow up. They help us understand which qualities we notice and like in another person — and maybe a few that we don't like.


The Object of Your Affection


You can't choose your crushes. Sometimes they sneak up on you and — wow — who was that? Your crush might be a classmate, a neighbor, your best friend's crush, an older kid, a friend of your brother or sister, a sister or brother of a friend, or a teacher at your school.

Your crush could even be on someone you don't know, like a professional athlete or a celebrity. When the crush is on someone you don't know, you might imagine what that person is like. Maybe you think about what it would be like to meet that person, even though you know you probably never will. It's still fun to imagine!

You might find yourself writing the name of your crush over and over again in a notebook or telling a good friend about that special person you like so much. Crushes might last a few days, weeks, months, or longer.


What Does It Feel Like to Have a Crush?


If you feel strange around your crush, you're not alone. That's how most people feel around their crushes. You might feel shy or giddy or maybe even shy and giddy all at once! Some people can't remember what they want to say when they see their crush. They feel speechless, or tongue-tied.

Some kids might chase their crushes around the playground, call them on the phone, or tease them to get attention. This might make a person feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt this way? It can be hard to control how you feel, but the rules of good behavior still apply. If your crush doesn't want to talk with you or it seems like you're making the person uncomfortable, it's time to back off.

Likewise, never let anyone behave in a way that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable. It's never OK for anyone — a kid or a grown-up — to do or ask things of you that don't feel right. That's not a good crush.


If I Have a Crush, What Do I Do?


When you develop special feelings toward someone, it can change your world. You might want to talk on the phone or ask your crush to your birthday party or a school dance. As you get older and your feelings change, you might be ready for your first boyfriend or girlfriend and even your first kiss! But for now, you might just be friends with your crush, if your crush wants to be friends with you.

You might or might not want to tell other people who your crush is. It can be fun to talk with friends about it, but sometimes kids tease other kids about crushes. Getting teased is never fun, so if you know about other kids' crushes, don't give them a hard time!

Some people call first loves or first crushes "puppy love" because these feelings are new to you, you're young, and you don't have much experience with life. You're the puppy! Get it? Think about how a puppy is so excited and happy with everything new in its life — from a rubber bone to an old shoe. But when your feelings seem real and strong, it may not seem like puppy love to you.

If you need someone to talk with about a crush, a parent can be a good choice. Remember, they were kids once, too, and they know what it's like. Can you imagine who your mom or dad's first crush was? Maybe they'll tell you about it!


What Do I Do When Someone Breaks My Heart?


When you have a crush on someone and you find out that he or she likes you, too, it's a wonderful feeling. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. It's hard to find out that the person you like doesn't feel the same way about you. You might feel sad, disappointed, and rejected. That sad feeling is called heartbreak, even though your heart isn't really breaking into pieces. If you feel heartbreak, those feelings can last for a while, but they will fade.

Another word about heartbreak: Try to be kind if you're on the other end of a crush — when someone likes you. It's a compliment when someone thinks you're special. If you don't feel the same way, try to tell him or her in a nice way.

Crushes are new and exciting, so enjoy them while they last. Someday, you'll be telling your own kids about your first crush!



→Here are my top 3 crushes←



NO. 1 ►DADHIE JHAY-R◄





NO. 2 ►KUYA AMBOT◄





NO. 3 ►SWEETY STEPHEN◄

 

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